I have lot of friends..
Some of my school or college friends are no more in contact with me.
I can classify friends vaguely, in two classes.
Some are friends in your routine, they just help you to ease out your routine and thats it.
And other type is that who remain with you irrespective of your and his/her routine..
Sometimes i think what makes me more friendly with my friends,
spontaneous sharing, some complimentary and some supplementary things, some common interests and habits. But this list is not complete..
I have 2-3 friends who are still there with me, though we don't have the things listed above.
These friendships have survived without any specific effort taken to maintain it. Some of the apt examples are "Dilip and Bhakti "...
Its always great fun to spend leisure time with my friends, but in recently i have noticed a strange thing lot of times. When i have a meet or call with some of my friends , i have a feeling sometimes that there is something that we have lost in the period of time. we no longer have frequency match needed. literally we struggle to find the topic to continue the discussion (most of the times, after starting formal discussion !!!
The matter of concern is, it is not about routine friends only....
i feel that there is no longer same spoantaneousness/freshness left..
it had happened even with my closest friends, gaurav and sidd. we were meeting together after very long time. we were all quite busy but somehow were able to fix a meeting on one night...
i finished my long day at IITB at 6.30 PM and rushed to pune afterwords..i was excited that i will have another night out with my best friends...
But that did not happen... when i reached sid's home, both of them were so sleepy and thinking about their busy tomorrow that we only manged a 10-15 min. sharing on 1-2 hopeless topics and straight went to sleep.
I know it's not that serious. It always happen due to busy routine, different moods and assumptions and many other things..
The fault can be on my side on all of these occasions. may be i am not that spontaneous or have certain image or i am not that comforting..
I dont know exactly and i have no idea what is an answer (if required) !!
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4 comments:
thats why i said it as dangeorous thread :)
be specific.. !
BAap re...tu tar mazya saarkha bolaila lagla...u seriously sound like me...pan jara jastach ugdyat vatata blog vagere...ani tuzyakadun tar blog vagere saglyat unexpected!! Iam surprised!
Whatever u have written is perfect...dat happens...but dat is just because savya geleli aste kahi lokanchi...kiva svatah pan tya lokan barobar rahaichi...hota...konachi chook nahi..but cnt help...jasta vichaar kela tar ajun jasta traas hoto...SO be happy!!
Hakuna Matata :P
i accept this can be a dangerous thread !!
As usual, either i have 'nt conveyed it right or people wont get it right !! :)
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